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👉🏽👉🏽Hi black…please hide my I dentity…
Am 32 yr old lady.i got married at 15 yrs after a defilement which led to my now teeage girl.
I dropped out of school as a result of the pregnancy…n got married to the culprit.(get me right here….after having the baby…the man was remorseful and claimed he won’t let me suffer. So he took us in..I gave in coz of the frustrations at home)…after 11 yrs in an abussive marriage,I started small business…one client came and it happened we were together in form 1(I was selling duvets)…she became a good and reliable client and we became close…
I could visit her house..when going for my cash or she comes to mine while bringing cash.
Her marriage was on and off…but I was not keen to ask anything.
One day I called her to ask of some cash ….n she said her hubby was sending me something small.(she gave him my number)I got cash bud didn’t save the number.
One Saturday I got a text on my WhatsApp…checking the do it was my friends hubby(let’s call him Drill)
It was an innocent chat at first until it begun to flirt.🙊
Having an absent husband…it was tricky for me.(remember my friend –lets call her joy –was also an absent wife)she could stay at her mum’s house for 6months and stay with Drill for 2wks….
Drill n I got really “messy” on the phone until it was nolonger news😂.we could sexchatt….send nudes…anytime we were online.
One day…I closed my shop early(we were neighbours actually……-a 4min walk-in)
I went home…took a bath…put on a baggy t-shirt and a lesson.(those were the only clothes I had after the shower)…I prepared dinner…by 7:45pm..I was online….drill was there too.
We chatted .. for around 20 mins…I became really horny.
He asked me to go over to his place(neighbours knew me as a family member to drill cos of the closeness I had with joy….so I could walk in any time and no one could question)
I quickly put on my sandals and walked out as if I was getting airtime.
I went straight to drills place…opened the door and entered.
(I was in a lesso and t-shirt alone)
When I got in he had a full erection.🙊….there was no talking…he lifted me…put me in a sitting position on the armchair of his sofa.
He stood in between my thi##s…n unzipped his pnts….
(Feed in the gaps of the process)
Ever since..things have never bn the same.
Drill wants to meet my parents….
His wife joy…my friend has no idea….drill gave me an experience av not seen or heard of anywhere.
Am confused……am lost.🐾🐾

👉🏽👉🏽Dear admin keep my Id anonymous, and please keep comments section open for help and replies.Don’t know where to start, when I was few months old my parents died after that my grandfather took care of me untill class 4th after that my uncle and aunt took me and my younger sister with them for studies. From there I did my schooling and btech from civil engineering and it’s been 6 years I’ve been working in a construction company. I never had someone whom I can trust and share everything, I was beaten and scolded and cussed for even small little things that I did by my aunt n uncle. Even my sister also told me whatever I shared to her knowing that she will help or will keep upto herself but she told them everything always and I was again scolded so never shared anything to anyone, i keep all my sadness, joy, etc to myself only. 2 years ago my aunt n uncle started looking for girl for me to get married. 3 to 4 girls got rejected by my parents and few rejected me because my parents are no more. Since I’m Indian so basically arrange marriage is our culture and people of girl side look for everything of boys side.
A year ago I got married, i always thought that each and everything whatever I’ll do I’ll do with all of my heart for my wife only and I’ll love her and give her everything with all of my heart, and I still think and do the same for her.
Few months ago my uncle tried to touch/molest her physically. She told me everything I said pack everything and let’s move away from home and never look back but she denied she said if we move away then everyone will think she lied just to get away from home(coz in our culture we always stay with our parents and take care of them). After that I took utmost care of her and manged her to forget everything. My uncle and aunt were happy with her during early days but after this incident they started throwing rumours about her with close family members that she wants to get away with me, she doest wants to do household works etc. Due to which things got ugly and she started replying them rudely and stood against what she didn’t do, i stood like a piller alongside her. Till date something my aunt keeps doing things like spreading rumours and calling her parents and doing things due to which her mood gets off n she gets hyper, i try to convince her that don’t mind these kinda things and move on or else u will be left where u are thinking about things which won’t do u good, i try to talk good so that she could forget everything and move on.
I guess she has split personality when she is happy she will love me care me talk very politely and lovely things but when she gets angry or her mood is off then I’m no one to her. Probably I’m the last person in her priority list at that time. I always think knowing her actions that her frnds are most important to her than me although I asked her few times regarding the same but when she is in good mood she will always say that I’m more important to her. Even today I asked her(bad mood today) I asked you are talking rudely to me if u were talking to your friends whether ur tone still be same?
She replied don’t bring my frnds in between i hate ur these kinda questions and from now on don’t comment anything about them or ask anything about them. She feels more comfortable with her frnds rather than me. If she would have loved me with all of her heart no matter what the situation or condition is priorities won’t change.
But whatever happens in the world all comes up on me, she will talk rudely to me all priorities are gone each n everything like I’m no one to her.
The thing that keeps bugging me is that I do everything for everyone with all of my heart but there is no one to think about me or look into my heart. I always thought since there is no one who could understand me for who I am maybe my wife could coz by that time i didn’t knew her that chapter was left uncovered, but now I know that there is no one. I always thought that me n my wife would live happily ever after but after each n every 3 to 4 days something happens n all the joy is gone.

👉🏽👉🏽Hi black hope your doing okay …. I’ve never posted here but I’m always an active member. I need your help,,so there’s this’ guy tumedate for 2 years now a long distance relationship…our 3rd anniversary is soon… we’re both in campus though he’s now done with 4th Year.
So I was asking if it’s normal for a guy to keep his relationship private…coz this guy doesn’t want his friends and siblings/family to know me…but he’s okay with my friends knowing him…so there’s a time I paid a visit to his place…all along he has been coming to my place and I’ve never get to his….so while I was there…he got sick …so I was the one doing everything for him.. cooking etc…so hakuwahi kubali we get out of the house together e.g going to the shop. ..it’s either I go alone or yeye aende….so there’s a day akaniambia his friend wants to visit him na hataki huyo boy ajue we’re dating…coz the guys knows me …so he asked if niko na shughuli tao I go then the guy akuje….so I got pissed…coz now that’s too much … what do you think is happening here guys?..is it normal to be so private to that extent?..coz at some point nadhani maybe ananicheza or he’s not proud of me
So when I was there…he never seemed to acknowledge my presence…. everyone was busy doing there own things… we were throughout on our phones…we never had our time like we used to kitambo….I don’t know if it’s because he’s sick and weak ndo he’s acting like that ama..I need your help guys…. I’ll take any advice… thank you.🐾🐾

👉🏽👉🏽Good morning black Nipostie niskize maoni za watu. Hide huduma No.
I married my wife 13 years ago,we are 39 n 35 years of age respectively, we have 4 kids of which am sure ni wangu coz I did DNA through a lady friend doctor in SA.
Now I know ,I’ve always known that I don’t satisfy my wife in bed, she has told me so several times wanting me to up my game n I tried all means even hospital, kienyeji herbs but being diabetic I can’t use enhancing medication, I can’t die of sex drugs n leave my kids this young.
Actually I did DNA coz after wife complained, expressed to me,talked with me,discussed with me n then started telling me to find ways I kind of felt she might go look for satisfaction outside, so I had to confirm if kids are biologically mine n they are.
I respect her so much for that, i love her the more for it.( she didn’t know about dna test,i couldn’t hurt her)I love her very much and I try to give her everything she needs but sex siwezani viiile, issue is that of late I think she is seeing someone else,my guts can feel that, her character tells as much.
I think she really do need to feel like a woman ,she will live this life just once,so am thinking of keeping her as my wife,mother to our kids n let her be ( find sexual satisfaction for herself),but let the family stay intact. Nitavumilia coz its me who’s kiwete ya ngono. I’ve never cheated on her ,not even once …sasa nitacheat aje,nikajiaibishe huko na niaibishe wife for what she settled for, apana!!.
I typed this for personal therapy,to get it out of my chest,to heal..I don’t have anyone to talk to coz I got a little ego still. Here in I can talk behind the curtain. Critics n criticisms are welcome Sana, people please talk to me ,be blunt as you can,sober talk too will help.🐾🐾

👉🏽👉🏽Hello Black…. Hide Id
so mine is not really a confession i would say.. but rather a concern that is really occupying my head.. so i have a girlfriend, dated now for one year. we’ve been going on so well until recently when we were chilling in the house netflixing. We were watching this new series.. Young African and Famous… and there was this scene about a conversation about parenting where one of the character has a 15 year old daughter and she never speaks to her or they never speak of anything else apart from when the kid needs something.. furthermore, the kid lives on her own. the scene caught me attention and decided to ask my girlfriend what she thought of that. so i paused and asked her. her response really had me thinking a lot lately.. She said she doesn’t see anything wrong there.. i decided not to say anything. so lately i have been bringing up this open questions that allow me to see how she would rationalize if it comes a time to and honestly, the way she’s been arguing about issues is worrying me.. in a very “stupid” way i would say. i don’t mean to be rude or something but i know we are living in a messed up world and i don’t intend to live with one who thinks in such a way. her reasoning doesn’t value loyalty or honesty at all. it is worrying me a lot. i would really want to here what others have to say about this if you would open up a comment session. may be it’s me who is seeing this in a different way and that she is right🐾🐾

👉🏽👉🏽black hi, am a male follower of your channel for a while kindly dont share my identity i have dated a girl for 3 yrs but for one year we were in a long distance relationship we used to meet though .so during that time she and her local catholic priest bought some piece of land together “i dont think she contributed anything”. at the time she told me they up together .i was not so comfortable and i politely told her but she told me not to worry about .a few months later she relocated from her home to live with a friend and since that day she developed an attitude a very bad one , she would ignore my calls among other things i tried reaching out but she called me immature and that and was very rude one day she told me its over and that she had moved on after some interogation she told me she is dating the catholic priest the priest has even furnished her house and plans to purchase her a car they actually go on road trips to all fancy places .more to that i recently lost my job and my ex issue is really crushing me like am yet to come to terms that my former gf has been cheating on me with a catholic priest its been 2 months and not feeling okay need some advise and positive critism too please hide my identity i also have no intension of taking any revenge or something i just want to move on but i cant stop thinkin about her kindly assist and thank for what your doing 🐾🐾

👉🏽👉🏽Hi plzz keep my id anonymous ,,,,,,I’ve been dating with a certain guy for almost 3 years now,since we started dating life has been good till last year September when I went to campus things changed.i got new friends in campus ‘boys’ and he dislikes them saying that I should not have boys as my friends instead i should get girlfriend but to me I feel secure with the hmguys rather than madem,,,,so huyu chali amekua akiniita malaya na kuniambia nichuz btn him or the friends coz yeye anadai hawezi nidate nikiwa na hao mafriends ,,,niko confused on whom to chuz whether the friends or him ,,, the truth is that he has been there whenever I need him even if it’s not ever time and also the friends have been there wen I need them and I can’t bare loosing them too coz they are the only friends I have at campus ,,,,,so last week we had an argument about the same issue and i decíde to chuz my friends over him so he has been blaming me and telling me I didn’t love or adore him on anyway i just feel guilty about this and i dont know wat to do ,,,tell me if I made the right or wrong choice plzz🐾🐾

👉🏽👉🏽Morning black, Wait I thought I knew what I want to say …. Let’s start from my childhood ( not a long story) so long ago my mom really wants to have a daughter but her wish couldn’t become real I was born (boy at that time when I was like 4 or 5). She raise me like a girl she used to make me wear dress like little girls and make ups and all stuff she wanted to do when she heard a daughter …..so she actually made me believe I was a girl …. But when I enter highschool it become difficult for me to understand boys I don’t like their way of thinking and I began to connect more with girls I had a lot of girl friend (just friends) … And I liked all the feminine things girls do so I realized I can’t be a man even if am physically man that am mentally and spiritually a girl so I decide to be girly boy …. I used to hate my self for being a feminine. But now i like my self after all being a girl means unique am unique ….. So ya I want to just share this. Let me know what u think of me thank you..🐾🐾

👉🏽👉🏽Hello Black please hide my Identity and add comments section I really wanna get some help. I’m 23 yrs I got a gf back in high school 2017 we tried dating but she got married and got a kid unfortunately after 1yr she broke with her hubby and her baby died late 2020 then suddenly I got her through a friend since I lost her contact she told me everything and since I was still loving her we continued from where we left till last year August we met she came to my place at the campus then we stayed for 1 month and some days, since she was still schooling she is in college she had to resume her classes upon going back she told me that she is pregnant with which I took positive after some weeks I paid her a visit she told me that she thought she had a pregnancy but she’s not then later that night someone came banged the door demanding to get in claiming that he’s the boyfriend and have been helping her so much, the lady defended herself as possible I never slept at her place and travelled back the following day now I had a friend who’s a staff of course a lady at my school she was just a good hearted lady and she trusted me and I too trusted her so after all that happened I decided to come much closer to her even sleeping over her place then on November last year I started demanding to share blanket with her she was objective at first but later agreed then on January I decided to ask her if she’s sure if not pg then she told me that she’s not sure but will check, she went and checked out and got +ve of pg then a week later the other lady sent me photos of her pregnant and told me that she’s 4 months pg now I’m stuck coz she had once confronted that lady who’s a staff and she claims that she’s going nowhere with the kids and even speaking of marriage yet I had tried to settle my mind with the other lady who’s a staff since the time she told me she is pregnant since she is even ready to settle down with me please help me choose no abuse please.🐾🐾

37👉🏽👉🏽I grew up in a small town where guys are considered as heroes if they have sex early and a girl is considered as a slut if she does so… I lost my virginity when i was 15 to a guy i just met by then… I did that because i heard a friend of mine saying if u lose your virginity period cramps won’t be a trouble anymore (she was right though)… But the guy whom i gave my virginity to took pictures and videos of us having sex and showed it to his friends…. Even a picture of me giving him a blow job… Then every body starts thinking that am a whore and they started to ask me to have sex with them…. I wanted to kill my self but at the same time i wanted to live and kill that dude… But instead of doing the alternative above i chose to be a player and played some guys… But now i feel like karma is doing its job… I fell in love for the first time and the guy played me…🐾🐾